從小到大,一直覺得愛可以分很多種,但不管哪一種愛,都是支持我們成長,療癒我們內心的絕佳力量。曾幾何時,也多不愛自己,太在意成為別人心目中的那個人,忽略真正身邊愛自己的人,其實每個人都有令人感動、值得被愛的地方,只是不一定能找的到。
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如果說,身邊有愛你的人支持著自己,你說,那路會不會不一樣呢?
在我們身邊的愛總來來去去,也許有人說,只有親情才是斬不斷,誰又說的準呢?我們人生的過客何其多,但那些人也許到來是有原因的,遇上的那個人,讓我們學會如何去面對心中的傷痕,去了解真正的自我,愛上原味的自己,這樣的人生,其實很棒,沒有說不的理由。
小若雖然是正面樂觀的人,但人生起落有時,我們不可能永遠只用正面態度面對人生,總得為生命找到情緒發洩的出口,人生的不完美才得以走下去。當我們心靈受傷時,如果能讓正面的愛走進我們心中,強化內心的力量,就算外在環境再波濤洶湧,心堅定了,又何必在意那些風雨。
哪一天當你遇上一個真的願意支持你的朋友,請讓他她走進你的心裡,那些人不一定能在物質上幫助你,但任何層面的愛,都能獲得更多力量,去抵抗這世界的無情和紛擾,只是前提是,你是否願意當值得被愛的那個人。
分享這首我唯一認真follow過的青少年偶像歌曲,現在他們仍以最純粹的原味在樂壇上,也如同這首歌一樣,用愛伴隨著我的人生至今。
樂團:NKOTB
歌曲:Since you walked into my life
當你走進我生命
<歌詞>
Time after time
Everything that I’ve tried
Can’t do nothing at all
Everywhere I walk, nowhere to turn
I was losing my way
Crying every day
I was givin’ up and you walked into my life
I never knew anything about love
In the world that I know
Lovers come and go
Nobody anywhere, talk like you do
Saying dreams can come true
Then you made me feel just like a man should feel
[Chorus: ]
Ever since you walked into my life
All at once, I feel so strong inside
Anything you ask of me
I’ll do it faithfully
Since you walked into my life (into my life)
Yeah, girl
You’re the only one for me
Oh, girl
Oh baby (oh baby)
Now I’ve got a reason to live
And oh darling
How I love the sweet love you give (oh baby)
And I wanna spend my life with you
Wanna make your dreams come true
Every step you take I wanna be with you
[Chorus ]
I am learning that the touch of love is magic
Feel it once, and you will see your world so differently
Nothing stays the way that it was
Everything begins again
You’re not who you’ve always been
[Chorus ]
Ever since you came into my life
I wanna be with you, girl
Since you walked into
Since you walked into my life
Girl, nothing’s ever felt
Nothing’s ever felt so right
Baby, I wanna be with you
Since you walked into
Since you walked into my life
I wanna be with you
[Repeat and fade ]